Tuesday, March 06, 2007

On Casual Relationships

I was reading an article in APP about casual relationships.

It says people partake in casual relationships because they want to feel love without the risk of being hurt..

"mukhang sila pero hindi..."

In the end, masasaktan ka din..

Speaking from my friend's experience (code ba to?)... It really is true.. You partake in a relationship you just wanted to have because you want revenge or you get lonely.. They are in love with you while you contunue to deny that they are nothing to you.. You want to be in a romatic relationship so much that you kid yourself.. But when reality hits which will hit you sooner or later..

You end up being the one to hurt someone.. And you get hurt in return.. Masakit kaya manakit ng iba.. lalo pa at ginagawa mo lang yun for yourself.. You partake in that kind of relationship to feel something you felt when it was real.. For a second, you think it's real pero hindi...

Niloko mo na ang sarili mo.. Nanloko ka pa...

Takot ako sa karma.. Nakarma na ako dati... Siguro sa nangyari sa aken.. it is nature's way of even-ing things out.. You got hurt and now ikaw naman nanakit...

In the long run, wala naman talaga masama nangyari eh.. It happened because of a reason.. Hindi naman talaga kayo ang meant for each other.. Sobrang pinilit niyo lang kaya masakit ang mahulog...

Siguro na-in love ka nga pero hindi ka naman niya mahal in return.. Siguro for a while minahal ka nga niya pero sa sandaling panahon lang...

I este my friend.. did not mean to hurt anybody.. He just wanted to feel something..

Nanakawin ko ang line mula sa isang ****

"Tao lang ako.. nagkakamali... Walang taong perpekto"

Pero bawat mali, tama dahil natuto ka... May nakilala ka tungkol sa sarili mo o di kaya may bagay na hindi mo na muling uulitin...

Natutu na ako.. este yung friend ko... I just want the real thing... To feel love.. with someone who makes me smile by just being kung ano siya... hindi yung pilit but something that came naturally..

1 comment:

glory said...

aray! tinamaan ako don... hehehe. gnyan dn ang nrrmdaman ko. except that hanggang ngayon, malungkot pa rin ako. haha.

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